Luck Or Life - When Bad Things Happen to get affordable People
If we are dealing with adversity, it is not always possible to think that everyone suffers loss and heartache. It feels and acts very personal when bad luck and rotten activities happen to good people.
Our first response is " Why Me? " We may question whether we did something to deserve this punishment or trouble. We might feel resentment for other people who are not suffering and question why trouble didn't choose them. We might even add up all of the bad, selfish and dishonest things a certain friend or acquaintance has been doing and yet still has good health and a big banking account.
It's Not Fair
Life isn't fair. As a mother of six children I attempted to hard at Christmas time to create the gifts emerge for everyone. Regardless of how many times I counted and then made lists after which recounted, on Christmas morning throughout the bedlam of presents, paper and toys, I'd realize it hadn't been fair. Someone had gotten a watch worth 20 dollars and someone had gotten a bracelet worth three dollars. Some one had gotten the precise doll she wanted and someone else got the one which is at style last year.
We finally chose to recognize and joke that no matter what we did, it was never going to come out even. But the joy was that you knew that the chances were good that certain day it would be your use get exactly what you wanted. We would often recite the battle cry of large families and pre-schools all over the world; "You get what you get, and also you don't throw a fit."
Luck or Life
Every day life is filled with luck and also full of change and chance. As Ernest Hemingway said earlier, we all get broken in some way which is the broken locations that make us strong.
Bad Luck is described as unforeseen occurrence, happenstance and yet best of luck is described as prosperity, wealth, windfall, success, advantage, profit and triumph, happiness and blessings. It's from the luck that the opportunities for growth and development come to us. When we take the opportunity to growth through loss, grief and adversity, we will become stronger and more resilient. I know this is correct, because I've experienced in my own life and also the lives of countless family and friends.
Questions To Think About
Do you decide yourself lucky or unlucky? Why?
Have you said "That's not fair." Why?
What do you consider about when bad things happen to you?
Can you look back again and recognize how a certain situation helped you to grow personally and spiritually?